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What do you say to approach a woman for the first time?

One of the questions I get asked most often is, "How do I approach a woman I'd like to meet?"

What they are really asking is, "What do I say?"

The mistake most guys make is thinking that they have to make a woman fall in love with the first sentence. That's impossible for reasons I won't go into here. However, your opening still is important.

Some guys try to memorize dumb lines. They soon learn why this is such a terrible idea. They get shot down because she's either heard it before or just has a much more clever comeback to it. Then they walk away with their tails between their legs.

Here's a much, much better approach: it's called "context".

Context simply means to ask yourself, "What do she and I have in common at this very place at this very point in time?" That's it - and it becomes your approach.

For instance, if you're at the auto repair shop, you obviously know that her car is broken. There's your context!

You can walk right up to her and say, "So, did you break your car again?"

Your opening is done. Now, just build some rapport and connection and build the attraction part.

Don't forget to close (get her number!)


Contributor's Note

Dr. Neder is known around the world as a tough, but fair relationship expert, dealing with all sorts of dating, sex and relationship issues from a man's perspective. Having written 3 books ("Being a Man in a Woman's World™" series) and is working on others, hundreds of articles, been on hundreds of radio and TV shows, he is funny, direct and intuitive.

Do you have a burning question that needs an answer? Are you a man that wants to better experiences with women, or a woman that wants to better understand men? To learn more, go to http://beingaman.com.

Contributed by Dr. Dennis W. Neder on April 14, 2008, at 9:23 PM UTC.

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